Relationship Coach

Relationship Coach

Are you facing challenges, conflict or communication issues in your relationship? Are you unsure if you should stay or leave? I am here to support you to get the clarity you are seeking.

 Would you like to learn how to:

  • Communicate without triggering your partner
  • Develop conflict-resolution skills
  • Decide if you should stay or leave
  • Understand red flags in your relationship
  • Stop people pleasing and develop boundaries
  • Learn how to navigate difficult situations
  • Recognize unhealthy or toxic behavior in your partner
  • Deal with an emotionally unavailable or avoidant partner
  • Shift from feeling lonely to loved and anxious to secure

You may be happily in love and need a few tweaks to improve, communicate better, and grow the relationship or you may be really frustrated and confused about what the next best step for you is and if you should stay or leave. Sometimes, people need assistance with having the confidence and courage to end a relationship.

Deciding to Stay or Leave?

  1. Are you feeling a lack of emotional or physical connection?
  2. Is your partner avoidant or distant?
  3. Have you both stopped trying to make the relationship work?
  4. Have your visions and priorities changed over time
  5. Have you lost trust with your partner
  6. Do you argue all the time and the conflict seems to escalate
  7. Do you feel invisible to your partner and lonely?

There are many reasons why you may want to end a relationship. Getting separated or divorced is rarely easy. There are many factors including financial, raising children in two households, feeling uncomfortable about leaving your children with your spouse, what family and friends might say, along with cultural stigmas. Fear of being alone is also common when exploring the idea of leaving. Together we will navigate all the issues and help you decide whether it’s right to stay or leave. And manage all the challenges one step at a time.

Here’s how I can help you get unstuck in your relationship:

Discover your attachment style

When it comes to relationship dynamics, adult attachment theory is a critical tool to understand. What attachment style you and your partner have shed lots of light on why you may be feeling or experiencing certain dynamics that have eluded you. There are four primary adult attachment styles are: Secure, Avoidant, Anxious and Disorganized.

Knowing what you are and what your partner is, can be very enlightening. Each style has certain predictable behaviours and can also trigger the other if not in alignment.

Many of these thoughts are the voice of your inner critic… Together we will unravel limiting beliefs that may be holding you back from being in a loving relationship and find lasting love.

 

Know Your Love Language and Your Partners

At the heart of every person is a desire to feel loved. Every person has a unique way of feeling loved. The five love languages describe the way in which we feel loved and appreciated. This is great information when you are in a relationship and want to improve it, but its also very handy while you are choosing a partner, or in anybody you are in relationship with including yourself 🙂

Depending on our individual personality types, you may feel loved differently than another person does. Understanding and decoding these different ways of showing love will help take the guesswork out of the picture.

Learn how to communicate better

We often communicate with judgments, evaluations, criticisms, demands or labels of right or wrong. Speaking and thinking in these ways often leads to conflict and blame, which in turn, can often evolve into sadness, anger, or even physical violence.

I teach my clients a system called Nonviolent Communication (NVC), also called Compassionate Communication, which was created by the American psychologist Marshall B. Rosenberg, who recognized that the way people use language often favors the escalation of violence. Taking responsibility for the way you feel and not relying on others to interpret, guess or imagine is the way to go…

Practicing this system will help eliminate negative emotions, resolve conflict with ease and lead to harmonious and peaceful connection.

What’s you will learn…

SELF-EMPATHY: Your compassionate awareness of your inner experience

EMPATHY: Your ability to listen to another person with deep compassion

HONEST SELF-EXPRESSION: Your ability to express yourself truthfully and inspire compassion

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION: Learn how to speak to someone without triggering their defense mechanism

 

Stop People Pleasing

People-pleasers are often empathetic and tuning in to what others are feeling. These positive qualities are wonderful, but they may be accompanied by poor boundaries low self-image a tendency to be a perfectionist and overachieve.

People pleasing can lead to burnout, feeling drained, stressed out and resentful. When you are helping others all the time, you may be neglecting yourself.

Together, we will practice your “no” muscle and learn when to say yes and when to decline; this will manage your behavior and develop more self-awareness. You can then begin to prioritize your own needs and establish healthy boundaries, which leads to a happier you!

Are you struggling to find harmony and fulfillment in your relationships? Do you yearn for deeper connections and healthier dynamics with your partner, family, or friends or are you deciding whether you should stay or leave? You’ve come to the right place.

As a dedicated relationship coach, I am here to empower you and guide you towards building strong, meaningful connections, overcome obstacles and create the fulfilling relationships you desire. And if ending the relationship is the best route, together we will help you decide to stay or leave and navigate that transition.

 

Ready to transform your relationships and create lasting change?

Take a Close Look at  Your Current Relationship: Together, we’ll do a comprehensive assessment of your current relationships. We’ll explore the strengths and weaknesses, communication patterns, and areas for improvement. By gaining a deeper understanding of the dynamics at play, we can develop a roadmap for positive change.

Effective communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. I will provide you with practical tools and techniques to improve your communication skills, allowing you to express yourself clearly, listen actively, and resolve conflicts constructively. You’ll foster greater understanding, empathy, and connection with your loved ones through improved communication.

Relationship Rebuilding: If you’re facing relationship challenges, I will guide you through the process of rebuilding trust, intimacy, and connection. Together, we’ll address unresolved issues, heal past wounds, and create a solid foundation for a stronger and more resilient relationship. I will equip you with strategies to rebuild, nurture, and sustain healthy relationships for the long term.

Boundaries and Self-Care: Establishing healthy boundaries and practicing self-care are essential for maintaining balanced relationships. I will help you develop a clear understanding of your needs and values, and guide you in setting boundaries that promote mutual respect and well-being. By prioritizing self-care, you’ll cultivate a healthier relationship with yourself and create healthier dynamics with others.

Relationship Transitions: Relationships naturally evolve over time, and transitions can be challenging. Whether you’re navigating a new romantic partnership, adjusting to life as a couple, or experiencing a major life change, I will support you through these transitions. I’ll provide guidance on managing expectations, adapting to new roles, and maintaining open and honest communication during times of change.

Remember, healthy and fulfilling relationships are within your reach.

With my compassionate guidance and expertise, you’ll gain the tools, insights, and confidence to create the relationships you desire. Together, we’ll embark on a transformative journey to build stronger connections, foster understanding, and create a more harmonious and fulfilling life.

Contact me today to schedule your initial consultation. Let’s embark on this transformative journey together and create the relationships you deserve. Your path to meaningful connections starts now!

 

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Relationship Coaching

  • 60-minutes each, either by phone or zoom
  • Over obstacles that are keeping you stuck.
  • Results-driven coaching to meet your goal

“There is beauty and grace in Jacqueline’s viewpoint. She is so wise and astute and her advice was spot on. Jacqueline is really great at seeing the big picture and thinking outside the box.” —Ketzia

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